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did_you_find_violets

@ did_you_find_violets @lemmy.world

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  • being involved with someone who has a dad like mine isn’t for the faint of heart🫨

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  • i have an overpowered, well-connected dad who’s really involved in my life. been talking about my crazy family here since my first account back in February🤠

  • being involved with someone who has a dad like mine isn’t for the faint of heart🫨

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  • my dad is disappointed that I'm wasting my time with an “ordinary man,” but he never stands in my way if I'm happy

  • watching one of my favorite singers wither away right before our eyes is heartbreaking

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  • No, it’s the fact that the video glamorizes how emaciated she is, which is incompatible with seeing “could lose a few pounds” as a negative, since she’s flaunting the end stage of being skinny. You can’t critique something you’re the personification of and trying to paint as normal. “Couldn’t hurt to lose a few pounds” is exactly the deadly lie anorexics tell themselves because of the delusional thinking fueled by their disorder.

    But it’s clear to me by now that you’re not engaging in good faith.

  • watching one of my favorite singers wither away right before our eyes is heartbreaking

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  • Pro-tip: the community’s description explicitly states: “Anything and everything goes. Memes, Jokes, Vents and Banter.” Consider this a vent.

    Also, content policing on a platform as small as Lemmy makes no sense. This also isn’t the first snarky, smart-ass comment you’ve left on my posts, which is also weird.

  • watching one of my favorite singers wither away right before our eyes is heartbreaking

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  • I watched it, and I just don’t buy this explanation when, in the same video, she’s purposely wearing stuff meant to accentuate her bones and figure. The “industry critique” aspect of the music video just falls flat. Someone on another platform said it better than I could: the fact that in a gore/horror-themed MV Ariana’s real-life body is the scariest part says it all. Ironically, I think the best “industry critique” is one she didn’t even mean, when she reads the innocuous note, “You bloom wherever you’re planted” (you become famous if, when, where, and how the ones at the top want you to).

  • my background and appearance don’t define me🤭

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  • pan-seared sea scallops over sweet corn puree with a bacon crumble. since it was our last dinner on Jeju Island, I thought seafood was fitting😌

  • Lemmy Shitpost @lemmy.world
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    my background and appearance don’t define me🤭

  • watching one of my favorite singers wither away right before our eyes is heartbreaking

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  • The thing is, she most definitely doesn’t know better right now in the depths of anorexia. Anorexia warps your sense of reality and self, and it's also a competitive disorder (hence, the “flaunting” many people suffering from it do). I mean, in the music video, there’s a note that says “couldn’t hurt to lose a few pounds” while she looks like that, so she’s obviously not in her right mind. I blame her management, executives, team, family, and friends for enabling her.

  • watching one of my favorite singers wither away right before our eyes is heartbreaking

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  • No one cares about her, she’s just their cash cow. The second pic is from her newest music video, "Petal," released a few days ago. The fact that a whole team approved a video that's blatantly pro-ana content (body checking/bonespo) for a mainstream pop star with a young, female fanbase is disgusting. Eating disorders are socially contagious, but I guess all publicity is good publicity to them.

  • watching one of my favorite singers wither away right before our eyes is heartbreaking

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  • Ariana Grande’s super fans will shamelessly argue that she’s healthy, nothing’s wrong, and that the elephant in the room shouldn’t even be mentioned🫩

  • Lemmy Shitpost @lemmy.world
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    watching one of my favorite singers wither away right before our eyes is heartbreaking

  • Lemmy Shitpost @lemmy.world
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    call me stupid but i think i'm starting to catch feelings😩

  • poetry & math Saturday💖

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  • this isn't one of my autobiographical posts😌

    i'm not lacking right now

  • Lemmy Shitpost @lemmy.world
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    poetry & math Saturday💖

  • Lemmy Shitpost @lemmy.world
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    it's Friday🫶

  • Ask Lemmy @lemmy.world
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    What’s the psychology behind enjoying immersing yourself in negativity online?

  • i love standing out💖

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  • in no way, it's just how this meme format goes😩

  • i love standing out💖

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  • Yeah, if you look up Seoul walking tour videos on YouTube, you'll see for yourself: Koreans are obsessed with black, white, and gray.

  • Lemmy Shitpost @lemmy.world
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    i love standing out💖

  • Lemmy Shitpost @lemmy.world
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    i can’t believe it

  • no guy has ever been as hungry to eat me out as this Korean dad last night. 11/10 experience.

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  • ate me out as if it were the last meal he’d ever eat.

    made me squirt in his face and swallowed it like it was the best drink ever.

    incredible.

    😩

  • Lemmy Shitpost @lemmy.world
    did_you_find_violets @lemmy.world

    no guy has ever been as hungry to eat me out as this Korean dad last night. 11/10 experience.

  • such a cold answer i felt bad for him🫩

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  • he’s 16. high school is a big (and hardcore) deal in Korea & they want him to have his own space in order to study in peace. this living situation is also a result of their son, as they wanted a place in an area with great schools and hagwons - so expensive area. child first lifestyle basically, lmao.

  • such a cold answer i felt bad for him🫩

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  • this guy shares the living room with his wife and mother-in-law, while their son gets the bedroom

  • such a cold answer i felt bad for him🫩

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  • yeah

  • such a cold answer i felt bad for him🫩

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  • this way i also confirmed that he’s not cheating

  • Lemmy Shitpost @lemmy.world
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    such a cold answer i felt bad for him🫩

  • he was embarrassed, i was surprised but flattered

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  • great

    lots of fun

    started yesterday & i have them in the morning

  • who came up with this plot?🫩

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  • a friend of mine saw a reel on IG about it, Googled to check if it was real, and then sent me this screenshot cause they were flabbergasted

  • Lemmy Shitpost @lemmy.world
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    who came up with this plot?🫩

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    he was embarrassed, i was surprised but flattered

  • Ask Lemmy @lemmy.world
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    If a married man says he’s only married on paper, what are the chances he’s just cheating?

  • Lemmy Shitpost @lemmy.world
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    she’s really honest indeed💖

  • Lemmy Shitpost @lemmy.world
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    scrutinized but efficient method

  • WomensStuff @piefed.blahaj.zone
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    “Progressive” Fediverse men